10個暗戀跡象

2013年3月月27日

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我一直相信,緣份是會從天而降的,不過維持單身太久,可能會忘記被愛神邱比特射中的滋味,與其懵懵懂懂分不清你與他/她之間曖昧是否等如「愛」,何不參考以下所說的十個暗戀別人的徵狀,若中了6條或以上,說不定你早已陷入一場暗戀之中。

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1. 常常留意 他/她的網上動態
自從有了facebook、博客、微博後,分享生活上的一切變得更容易。你經常有意無意在他/她的網上地盤留言或做甘願做cd-rom,靜悄悄地留意此人的一舉一動,甚至忽然神探Sherlock Holmes上身,像查案一樣仔細地click 入人家的profile,看了良久也不願關閉。

2.  24小時心掛掛Whatsapp
無論你有幾忙,每隔一會就想開機留意自己的Whatsapp、Wechat、Line等等溝通途徑,看看對方有沒有unread message留給自己;一有短訊來臨,你會雀躍不己。

3. 查閱人家last online時間
假如希望落空,如果沒有新訊息 ,你會不自覺scroll up & down,翻閱自己跟對方昔日的談話短訊。你亦會偷看他/她last online時間,心想為何對方既然在線,卻沒有跟自己搭訕,又會否他正在和其他異性談話呢?總之腦內會充滿十萬個為什麼的忐忑。

4. 零交流=零心情
好,繼續談chat tool,假設你們經常互send短訊,你會暗自計算起來,若一天內沒有跟對方溝通,總會覺得今日好像缺少了甚麼,人會變得無mood無動力,但又不想率先跟對方說話,深怕打擾人家,硬生生把話吞進心裡。

5.  莫名奇妙的妒忌
如果對方在你面前與其他異性言談甚歡,你的面色會忽然難看起來,心裏那股酸溜溜的感覺便排山倒海般湧現,氣難平,連自己都覺得奇怪,這種情緒就是呷醋的表現。

6. 強裝不在乎
在那位疑似暗戀對象面前,你會扮得不特別在意他/她;但當他/她一轉身離開,你卻急著找回人家的身影,畢竟身體是誠實的。

7. 刻意修飾話題
當你有機會跟他/她獨處時,你會預先小心翼翼demo一次與對方的交談,盤算等會兒應該談甚麼話題,生怕講錯說話,心情比考試還要緊張。

8. 不介意放慢腳步
平日返工返學以9秒9步速走路的你,在路上巧遇被暗戀者時,會忽然很想放慢腳步,暗自希望今天的地鐵可否不要那麼準時,祈求巴士不要太快到站,但願能爭取時間與他/她多點相處。

9. 剪不斷,理還亂
暗戀的心情既愉快又可以曖昧不清,當你以為可以放下對方,決心不再重複做著以上8項的行徑之際,夜閑人靜,他/她又會在你腦海中出現,揮之不去。

10. 噢!我想起某人
當你讀到這裡,不但會心微笑,並心有戚戚然想起某人,好可能你已墮入情網,唔信?至少你對他/她的感覺是屬於「唔止朋友咁簡單」這一種!


後記:「我有少少鍾意左佢……」

暗戀情懷總是詩,雖然過程往往令人忐忑多於快樂,有時候,這種不分年齡的感覺反而是一種「那些年」回憶。每個人都試過暗戀,只是有些人比別人更會隱藏而已。
不敢表白的原因大多是怕被拒絕後不能繼續當朋友,二來是面子攸關,其實,愛她/他就要好好把握機會,嘗試主動出擊抓住愛情吧,因為曾努力付出過,往往被甚麼都不做而後悔莫及的下場來得積極,說不定你會有愛情收穫呢。
 

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